Rising Housing Costs Are Hurting Our Young Military Families

I’ve been thinking a lot about military life lately, probably because my nephew has decided to pursue a career in the service. It’s a brave, noble choice, and I couldn’t be prouder of him. But, at the same time, I’ve found myself worrying about some of the less glamorous aspects of military life—things that don’t make it into recruitment ads or get discussed around the dinner table. One of the biggest concerns on my mind right now is housing, especially with how the cost of living has been spiraling out of control.

I’m sure we’ve all noticed it. Rent prices are up, mortgage rates are higher than ever, and finding an affordable place to live these days feels like winning the lottery. But for military families, it’s even more complicated. You’d think that with the sacrifices these folks are making for their country, the least they’d get is a fair shake when it comes to housing. Well, it’s not that simple.

Let’s talk about the Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH). For those who aren’t familiar, BAH is a housing allowance that’s supposed to help cover the rent or mortgage for service members living off-base. In theory, it sounds like a solid plan. The military gives you a set amount of money, and you use it to find a place to live near your base. The problem? That amount isn’t keeping up with reality.

Since 2018, rent costs have shot up by nearly 44%. Let that sink in for a second. Meanwhile, the BAH has only gone up by about 19%. That’s a huge gap, and it means that military families are often paying way more out of pocket just to keep a roof over their heads. The BAH is designed to cover around 95% of housing costs, but when rents are climbing faster than your allowance, that 95% turns into something much lower.

I’ve read stories about military families getting priced out of the areas near their bases. They’re competing with civilians in the same housing market, and that’s a tough battle when you’re stuck with a fixed allowance that doesn’t reflect the latest rental prices. Some families are having to bid higher than they can afford just to secure a place, while others are settling for subpar housing or commuting long distances because that’s all they can find.

Let’s break it down a little more. Imagine you get stationed at a base where the housing market has gone crazy. Maybe rent has jumped by 20% or more in the past year alone. The Department of Defense has started increasing BAH in some areas where rent spikes have been extreme, but that only applies to 28 military housing areas. So, if you’re unlucky enough to be stationed somewhere that’s not on that list, you’re stuck with last year’s BAH while trying to navigate this year’s skyrocketing rent prices. It doesn’t take a financial whiz to see that’s not a sustainable situation.

And it’s not just single service members feeling the pinch – families have it even harder. You’ve got more mouths to feed, more space to pay for, and you need to live in a safe area with good schools for the kids. But that’s becoming harder and harder to find within the constraints of the BAH. Some families are ending up in homes that aren’t in the best shape, or they’re paying way more than they should be just to secure a decent place. In some cases, they’re driving ridiculous distances to find something affordable, adding another layer of stress to an already tough situation.

This isn’t just a military issue, either. The entire country is dealing with a housing crisis. There aren’t enough homes to go around, especially not affordable ones. And since military families don’t have the luxury of living just anywhere, they’re often stuck competing for the same limited supply of housing around bases. It’s not just that the prices are going up—it’s that there aren’t enough homes, period.

I know what you’re thinking: isn’t there on-base housing? Well, yes, but there are issues there too. On-base housing is in short supply, and a lot of it is outdated. The military is trying to build more, but it’s not happening fast enough to keep up with the demand. Most service members end up living off-base, which puts them right back into the same competitive, expensive rental market as everyone else. The sad reality is that military families are being squeezed from all sides.

So, what’s being done about it? Well, there’s some hope on the horizon, but it’s slow-moving. There’s talk about reforming the BAH – maybe adjusting it more frequently to reflect real-time changes in the housing market or doing more to ensure it covers a higher percentage of rent costs. There are also efforts to build more affordable housing, both on-base and off, but that’s not going to happen overnight. In the meantime, military families are left to make the best of a tough situation.

I’m not here to suggest that this is a reason to avoid a military career. Far from it. There’s honor in serving your country, and for a lot of people, it’s a calling that outweighs any challenges. But I think it’s important to go into it with your eyes open, especially when it comes to something as crucial as housing. This isn’t just a problem for the service member—it’s a problem for their entire family. When you’re worried about how to keep a roof over your head, it can take a toll on your ability to focus on the job, not to mention your overall well-being.

For anyone considering the military or already living that life, I’d recommend staying informed about these issues. Know your options, be prepared to make tough choices, and don’t hesitate to ask for help if you’re struggling to find affordable housing. There are resources out there—support networks, financial counselors, and even other military families who have been through it and can offer advice.

At the end of the day, I believe the military and the government will work toward fixing these problems, but it’s going to take time. Until then, the reality is that many service members and their families will continue to face housing challenges. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but being aware of it can help you navigate it a little better. After all, military life is about more than just the uniform and the missions—it’s about the day-to-day realities that come with it.

So, whether you’re someone who’s thinking about enlisting, or you’re already in the thick of it, just know that housing is one of those challenges you’ll have to deal with. But with the right mindset, a bit of planning, and maybe some creative problem-solving, you can get through it. It might not be easy, but if there’s one thing military life teaches, it’s how to adapt to tough situations and come out stronger on the other side.

In the meantime, let’s hope those who make the big decisions keep this issue on their radar and work to ensure that the people serving our country have a fair shot at a decent place to live. It’s the least they deserve.

Chris Davis

Chris Davis is a failed mechanical engineer who got involved with accounting. He keeps books better than he fixes things. In his spare time he travels, plays golf, and loves to eat sushi. Sometimes he gives the sushi to other fish..